It took me a good year to find the courage to answer the phone...
but when I finally did, I ended up falling in love with it altogether. I could never have predicted that at the age of 30 I would discover my real calling. Phone sex, surprisingly, was not what I had imagined it to be. I quickly recognized that times have changed and that phone sex no longer was about sharing a crummy booth with twenty other girls (all with curlers in hair and cigarettes dangling from their mouths.) Au contraire, phone sex amazed me and left me astounded by the misconception I had of it.
The majority of my callers want to mostly talk about their fetishes and are looking for escapism - a way to explore their sexual secrets and real desires without having to deal with the fear of being shunned. I have been doing phone sex for two years now and have steadily built up a very dedicated clientele for myself. These are all men that I thoroughly enjoy talking to and our sessions usually last on average about an hour. My love and adoration for my work and my clients have taken me on a pleasurable journey and have afforded me the opportunity to talk to and get to know some of the most extraordinary people imaginable. I have spoken to people from all walks of life. People in finance, the arts, doctors, lawyers, the fortunate, the not so fortunate, the married, the divorced, the widowed, the somewhat vanilla, all the way to the extra kinky - and as diverse as these people are, I quickly recognized that they all have one thing in common - and that is that they all need someone to talk to about their fetishes and kinks. They need a way to communicate their sexuality without confinements or the unpleasant feeling of judgment.
As a result of my work as a phone sex operator, I have been led on my own path of self-discovery and wanting to gain a better understanding of these different fetishes and kinks. Therefore, I have decided to obtain my Ph.D. in Human Sexuality with an eventual emphasis on the male gender and fetishes. What makes me stand out from the rest of them, is the fact that I have a sincere curiosity and consideration for my callers and am always looking for current and thought-provoking approaches to help and engage them. I am thrilled to call myself a student of sexology and am looking forward to one day having my professional in-person practice. Since starting work as a phone sex operator, I believe that I have gotten to know myself better and for the past two years have been non-stop researching, studying, and getting involved with different fetish and kink communities across the world. I have this website that I am very proud of and my podcast "Must Love Fetish" was specifically created to help people understand fetishism better. It is my biggest hope to help my clients who are seeking answers for themselves, or even those who are seeking answers for a loved one, to eventually find those answers with me. It is my goal to help my clients uncover their true sexual capacities, to live the life that they are genuinely worthy of, and to help them find that one thing that could lead to a path of higher self-discovery. Here’s to all of us: may we all gain a better understanding and knowledge of the very secretive and wonderfully imaginative world that is fetishism.
I hope to catch you on the kinky side soon!